My husband and I decided to hold off from getting pregnant for the first 4 years of our marrige. After those 4 years, we tried so desperately to conceive without any success.

With worry and frustration, we decided to see a local gynecologist. We did a few tests, but results showed that both my husband and I were “A-OK”. After multiple treatments of clomid, tests, and lifestyle changes, 3 years later, we saw no progress.

We took some time off to relax and just get away from the stress of trying to conceive. Our original gynecologist left to a different clinic, so we moved our records and started seeing gynecologist #2.

We again began clomid and went through a second round of testing with the new clinic. We were told again that there was no reason why we shouldn’t be able to conceive. A year later, with still no luck, our gynecologist suggested that instead of going through IUI (mainly due to my age), we seriously consider IVF.

2 months of prayers (I made it a point to renew my faith and go to church and attend mass every Sunday), tests, injections, medications,doctor appointments and finally an embro transfer, we were going to have a baby! WE WERE SOOOOO HAPPY!!!

Everyone were so happy for us! . Then, after several lab exams, we found out that the birth was Ectopic. I had took 2 shots to terminate the preganancy, but the termination was a little late (since i insisted on getting second opinions), that i had complications and lost almost 2 pints of blood due to internal bleeding.

It was one of the scariest moments in my life . I  remained in the hospital for 6 days.

Half a year later, I were able to conceive naturally. I can’t even put into words how SHOCKED we were. We were extremely happy, but didn’t tell anyone until 4 months later because we were still extremely worried since the first pregnancy was ectopic.

On July 20, 2009, i gave birth to Michael. It was truly a time for celebration. After years of waiting, he was finally here with us.

Each day I thank God for the blessing he has given to us. Although there may be many sceptics out there, I go to church every Sunday to give my thanks. For me and my family, this wouldn’t have been possible without the blessing from the Lord above.

Don’t give up, have faith in the Lord and may your love provide the strength to endure.